Bon — truly an “angel in disguise”

08 Nov

I don’t typically post about private matters but I’m going to make this an exception only because I wanted to share something that I LEARNED FROM MY 6-YR OLD. Dex and I had an ugly fight yesterday morning and things still aren’t well between us. Bon asked me about it before sleeping so I explained everything to him — how I’m hurting and really pissed at his father because of what he said and did especially because I didn’t even do what he was accusing me of. After I was done talking this is what my son said, “Mama, when you talk to him again, tell him this. I still have HOPE.” Me:”What do you mean?” Bon:”Tell him that I still have hope that he will treat you better and that he can still become a better person and father. Also, tell him to ALWAYS HAVE JOY IN HIS HEART. If he has joy in his heart, then he wouldn’t be angry at everyone all the time. And I’m not going to get mad at him but he should not hurt you and make you sad anymore because it will also make me sad. Don’t worry, mama. WE BOTH KNOW IT’S NOT TRUE. DON’T THINK ABOUT IT TOO MUCH ANYMORE.. I think I will add that to my prayer, mama.” Someone from school told Bon before that he was her angel for making her happy that day and that he was her answered prayer from God. This conversation between me and my son proved that he truly is an “angel in disguise”. =) Because of what he said, the anger that I felt for Dex dissipated. BON’S RIGHT! I SHOULDN’T THINK ABOUT IT ANYMORE BEC. THE ACCUSATION WASN’T TRUE ANYWAY. AND JOY SHOULD BE IN MY HEART INSTEAD OF ANGER. And that I SHOULDN’T LOSE HOPE that things (and Dex) will get better. Our talk actually gave me PEACE OF MIND. Thank you, Lord for giving me such a WONDERFUL BLESSING — BON! As for you Dex, YOU DON’T DESERVE THE KIND OF LOVE and UNDERSTANDING THAT YOUR SON IS GIVING YOU (and YOU KNOW WHY!).. I just hope YOU KNOW HOW LUCKY YOU ARE TO HAVE A SON LIKE HIM! Thank you, Bon for this. You helped mama to become a much better person, too. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH MY ANGEL! ♥

1 Comment

Posted by on November 8, 2012 in Loves of My Life, Random Thoughts


One response to “Bon — truly an “angel in disguise”

  1. rift

    December 21, 2012 at 5:18 am

    I’m impressed, I have to admit. Seldom do I come across a blog that’s equally educative and interesting, and let me tell you, you have hit the nail on the head. The issue is something that not enough men and women are speaking intelligently about. I am very happy that I stumbled across this during my search for something relating to this.


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